Ive recently fallen out with someone I thought was a really good friend. Wait, no, scratch that, we didnt fall out at all. There was no argument, no cross words, nothing. It just so happened that we didnt see each other for a little while, she asked if there was anything wrong, if she had done anything to which she got a negative response coz it was just one of those things. I was busy, she was busy etc. But that obviously went on a little longer than she was happy with, we stopped speaking pretty much altogether, and then I find out from two different sources, that she has been speaking about me. And after being asked what had happened (not by me), she replied with 'Things have been said, we will never be friends again'. And after the last few days, she will be lucky if I dont ruin her life for her.
We had sort of, kind of, got back on to online speaking terms, the odd comment on facebook or informative mini chats on MSN. Then she was told something that she didnt like. A decision I had made about someone who has previously been a rather large burden in my life. Basically, they had nowhere to live, no roof over their head, so I said that I would put him up for a few days. Im a grown up, I can make these informative decisions all by myself. Just because it pisses her off, or she has some sort of issue with it, she removes me from facebook. I think she blocked me too.
Then that evening, a fb message appears, not for me, but for the kids dad. She has taken it upon herself to inform him of a situation that happened a little while ago. I made a stupid decision and did something I shouldnt have. And 'out of concern' (read:out of being pissed off with me) she felt that she had to tell him. So of course, he flips out on me, I get called all sorts etc. etc. I explain my side, we get over it, its done. And that clearly wasnt the reaction that she had hoped for. So she has gone out of her way to try and make it worse for everyone. She chose last night to inform anybody that would listen in the pub about what happened. She called me names via the ex, calling me a slag, she left nasty little comments on facebook for all to see, ulimately, she threatened to do something, that if she carried it out, could seriously ruin lives.
This was never done out of concern, this was done purely because I was out of her control, I had taken my life back and I was doing ok. She didnt like that. This is nothing to do with concern, this is purely to do with narcissism.
She has fucked with the wrong person this time. I hope she really does believe in karma. Then she will understand why her life is about to go totally downhill.
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