Jinx

I knew it. I knew I shouldn't have said anything. Things have been going better for me for about a week or so. So I blogged about it.
Worst. Mistake. Ever.
4:30am I get a phone call from the ex. If he wasn't looking after our daughter, I'd have ignored it. So I get greeted with a demand to know if I'd slept with someones bf recently. (Now this refers to something that happened months and months ago so wasn't totally out of the blue).
Of course I haven't, so I ask him why, and he tells me that he had just recieved 3 phone calls from someone, first one saying his gf had slept with someone else, he says he hasn't got one and hangs up. Second call saying his gf is a slapper and apparently third one saying that I (using my name) had slept with her (using her name) boyfriend. So of course he has to phone me straight away, wake me up and proceed to rant and rave about how awful this is, that the phone had just woken the daughter up.
It took me about half an hour to try and calm him down, and try and get him to put it in perspective coz he wanted to go out and cause a fight.
He kept hanging up on me so I kept having to phone him back and make sure he wasn't being an idiot. That's how he handles shit, fight first (or threaten to at least) ask questions later.
It's so pathetic, the fact that this person called HIM, when none of this has anything to do with him. And the fact they even called in the first place, over something that I thought was over and done with months ago.
There is part of me wondering if he is even telling the truth though. He was involved with a married woman, and I'm wondering if this was to do with that and the caller didn't mention my name at all.
That's if there even *was* any phone calls. I don't know what to believe anymore.
Apparently he was out the other week and a lot of people were talking about me. Not nice stuff, so I asked for names. He named my ex and my ex best mate (both of whom I know are bitter and neither of which bother me in the slightest), he also named a very good current friend. So I asked her about it, coz she's not the type to talk behind my back, and surprise surprise, she didn't even see him that night. So he just made that bit up purely to try and hurt me. I'm so done.
Oh, and apparently he still loves me. The very thought of that makes me feel sick.
So much for things looking up.
Maybe next year.

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